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New Rules

May 22, 2019 By jconway

Unity in essentials, diversity in non-essentials, charity in disagreement.

I became familiar with this quote when I joined a friendly debating society after I graduated from college. The key modifier there is friendly. I have always thought of this site as a home away from home online, a place where we could have friendly debates. Lately it has not been a particularly hospitable place and it is part of the reason I and many of the other longtime contributors have not been here as much.

Here are some principles I think we should all follow.

1) Unity in essentials

We are all Democrats or Democratic leaning voters. Let’s remember that. Nobody here is a Republican, a racist, a sexist, or a Trump supporter and we should try avoiding lobbing those accusations to stifle debate among friends.

2) Diversity in non-essentials

Some of us voted for Bernie, some of us voted for Clinton. None of us voted for Trump. I think this is important to keep in mind as the primary season begins locally and nationally. Some of us favor the public option, some of us favor single payer. All of us agree that the current health care system is messed up and needs to be fixed. These are some examples of diversity within the center-left that we should value and not try and stifle.

3) Charity in disagreement

Let’s assume the best intentions in our fellow commentators even if they disagree with us on something we passionately favor.

Keep it Original and Classy.

1)Prioritize original content

That is what still drives lawmakers and press to these pages. Seeing something here they won’t see anywhere else. My post on the Olympics got me an invite to a sit down with Marty Walsh. My post on how to fix the legislature helped get me my job with the UIP. Posts on education and marijuana policy here definitely drove the conversation during those ballot questions. We need to do more of this, and less of the armchair punditry and tit for tat sniping we sometimes fall into.

2) If you have nothing nice to say, don’t post

I find myself doing this more and it makes it easier for me to stick around. Disengaging is better than wrecking a post with 50 or more tit for tat comments that do nothing but keep the people locked in that dispute angry at one another while boring long time readers and driving eyeballs away from the original content of the thread.

3) Don’t be boring

I see a lot of repetitive posts and comments. Try not to do that. Try and say something new (following that first rule). Always be original.

We are all imperfect and will break these rules from time to time, but I hope we can all do better. This site is still meaningful and I want it to be a more welcoming place for newer and diverse voices.

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  1. scott12mass says

    May 22, 2019 at 5:40 pm

    I didn’t vote for Trump, but I didn’t vote for Hillary either. Libertarians supported gay rights long before Obama and the Clintons came around. I feel Gary got screwed by not even being invited to the debates, even though he was on the ballot in every state. I’ve always enjoyed reading the super liberal opinions on here because my towns in both Mass and Fla both were carried by Trump. Among my golf buddies 75% are Trump guys so I hear a wide variety of opinions and try to bring some enlightenment to any discussion. It is hard getting anyone to even listen to the other side now. I try to get them to at least listen to what the other side is saying.
    But this site has been getting tedious and often the exchanges have been getting very petty. And you guys are all on the same side. So good luck, the guys on the other side of an opinion are not the demons you may think they are. The average guy has been getting screwed by the system run by both the major parties for years. Adios, over and out.

    • jconway says

      May 22, 2019 at 10:49 pm

      I welcome your perspective Scott or those of anyone willing to charitable disagree and debate in a friendly way.

  2. Mark L. Bail says

    May 23, 2019 at 9:20 am

    Well said, James. We had a union local meeting yesterday about our divisive boss. Perhaps because we’re all teachers, we followed the above rules.

    Part of the pettiness, I think, is due to the fact that the stakes here are so low.

    The issues we discuss may be high-stakes, but the fact that we write posts about them or comment on them is pretty low-stakes. Winning every argument on BMG wouldn’t change Massachusetts, never mind the nation. I post when I have time and something to say. These instances are increasingly rare.

  3. lodger says

    May 23, 2019 at 3:36 pm

    I’m still here. I’ve written before that I come here to learn, and I often do learn.
    I rarely comment anymore however as I dislike the feeling of being an antigen in a world of antibodies.

  4. johntmay says

    May 23, 2019 at 6:17 pm

    Yup, got to like rule #1. ….and rule #2 (the second one)

    Pledge to follow all the rules…..and remember, if you can’t be kind, be vague.

  5. SomervilleTom says

    May 23, 2019 at 7:04 pm

    I do the best I can. I apologize for the times when I fall short.

    I mean no personal insult to anybody here.

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